stop comparing yourself with others-

-
 “there’s a price for everything is life and the price for this happens to losing yourself”

  1. It’s been a while since i’ve wanted to address something. Something which I feel a lot of people don’t talk about it because of whatever reason and I think I’m going to finally write about it as I see people going through this and I myself happen to have experienced this. I know more than half of you all won’t bother to read this but for those who do, I really hope this helps you in whatever it can.


Well, change is something we humans consider normal, isn’t it? But wait a second, I think most of us has forgotten about the fact that there are two kinds of changes : 

1) A good one. 

 2) A bad one 


   Honestly, I feel like a plethora of people out there have changed because of the influence of social media. We’ve changed from being frolicking children to sad soul who’re constantly feeling the urge to fit in. But my question is, WHY DO YOU WANT TO FIT IN? Why!? You’re beautiful and marvellous just the way you are! We do not need to lose yourself in the process of fitting in. We emphatically have made our lives similar to a rat race. We tend to live our own lives in a certain way to look ‘COOL’ lol 

     Undoubtedly we witness a bunch of people on social media who we think are better than us (both physically and mentally) and because of that reason we constantly want to become like them!! We’re demotivating ourselves and trying so hard to become someone we are clearly not! 

    Stop doing so hard, stop doing what others do because honestly even if you think it makes you ‘cooler’ or whatever, let me remind you, there’s a price for everything is life and the price for this happens to losing yourself.

    Do not lose yourself for anyone or anyone. Don’t change yourself into someone you’re not. You were created for a reason and apparently you’ve a purpose in life! However, you won’t be able to accomplish that if you try to be someone else. Don’t lose your identity in this crowd- shine bright! 


Learn to appreciate everything you have!! Just because we didn’t end up on the same wave doesn’t mean we aren’t still a part of this ocean 🌊 


                             - SYED AFRAH ARSHAD


             

Comments

Post a Comment

If you’ve any queries kindly let me know

Popular posts from this blog

Venust existence - afrah

-
Appreciate what you have before it’s gone❗️  Let me start by saying (and I’m pretty sure that you’ll go along with it)   HUMAN MIND IS NEVER SATISFIED! we (humans) tend to chase big dreams and often forget to measure the progress by how far we’ve come and how far we’ve to go.    Life is whizzer, limitless and fromastic  Always remember, we’ve come so far and during our voyage, we’ve emphatically learned plethora of lessons- undoubtedly , we’ve learned to step out of the boundaries of our worries, believing in our hard work. Trust me, it has never been a tranquil journey, however it has opened our eyes in many different ways.   We’re indeed cognizant about the fact that there are  plethora of people across the globe who are inadequate to fulfill their basic requirements- so many people strive food and security- many don’t have access to internet and some don’t have shelter. Therefore, NEVER BE UNGRATEFUL !!  You’re going to realise it someday that the satisfaction that you felt wasn’t a
Read more

Arrant Alexithymiaic student- Afrah

-
  I was unescorted in the classroom full of unfamiliar faces, the  touch of endeavour on my soul was all I desired. I was scared to acknowledge my existence in the class full of vivid students,  Yet the aspiration that I had was all I needed. I stood up with my confidence and a spirit of valour. I knew human options will only disable me,  rather than striving up bravery within me.  I chose to believe that magnificent things are going to happen to me. I knew, this journey is intricate and there’s no rule to it. I desire to wake up in the middle of the night with my heart and mind filled with felicity. The anxiety, the fear and the pain that I had was never worth anything. The world i live in is undoubtedly full of the negative and the positive energy  And, as a dreamer it was my job to protect my soul and mind from distractions- fending off the negative. In my journey, I desire the practice of taking control of my thoughts and filling my mind and soul with gratitude and goodness. Life i
Read more